He told me he was working all night but his phone was switched off so I suspected something was fishy. Later found out through his Facebook that he was with his ex the whole night. I was shocked and immediately told him its over. Instead of apologizing he's telling me that I'm being too emotional and that she's his friend and that they met because she had some personal problems. He even has the audacity to tell me that he would have told me the truth but knew I would react this way so didn't!
I told him I want to break up and he said fine and was unapologetic. I am feeling so upset what should I do?
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Of course, it would suck balls at first. Here you are, thinking that you've found someone, and one day your world just turns upside down - he's back with an ex, and that probably makes you feel like a tiny insignificant spec to him. But if anyone, guy or girl, reunites with their ex, it's just a sign that there was something about the person they've held on to, and that you were probably there to fill up the empty void in their wake.
Could such a person care for you? Possibly. I doubt he's a terrible person in all other aspects. As for love though, forget it ever happened in their world. It's quite possible that they've reunited romantically before he broke it off with you.
I'd say he's a weak person for jumping on the next wagon, and screw him for not being able to stand on his own. You deserve someone strong, who can stand on their own, and who won't feel the need to find a replacement if things should go wrong.
I think you're doing the right thing. Get to doing things you like, spend more time with friends, and go on a motherfuckin' adventure! You're single now, and not bounded by anything, so embrace it. Who knows, you may meet someone on the way. Just make sure not to invest too much of your time and attention in the beginning, as it will be much easier to sniff out the keepers from the weepers this way. Slow and steady wins the race, but seriously- Focus on yourself first. Hook up here and there, but I'd avoid relationships if I were you.
Another option you have is that you can keep being sad about it, while making no effort whatsoever to recover, because you're sad that he's gone.
Your choice :)0