Should I be worried? Of course it s*cks not having a relationship, but I'm the kind that looks for THE right one, the love with a capital L to last for the rest of our lives. Also, I'm not an a**hole, and we all know women love a**holes. They do not want good or tender guys because they misperceive them as people who "use tenderness or goodness to hide the fact that they are not good in bed"... well, I've tried, fallen in love a few times but it was never requited; registered on numerous dating sites etc., but nothing works...
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Chances of finding capital "L" love to last a lifetime aren't so good, if you're starting at 30.
Only about 20% of women are capable of that, and most of them would have been snatched up in their 20s and will stay with the same man forever.
For most of the remaining 80%, about the best you can count on is 4 years before they fall out of love, and there's nothing you can do to prevent or change that. It doesn't matter how much they love you in the beginning, or for the first few years. Let's get that out of the way first, by reading this link.
I doubt that you need professional help, but you probably need to learn a few lessons and change your approach. You need to stand tall and look confident, like you own the world or don't care who owns it. You need to look people in the eye when you first meet them, at least long enough to see what colour eyes they have.
There's a lot in this.
Here's another quick course, and cheap enough. It's good on recognizing body language and signs of attraction.
Work at it, and good luck.1