Sorry this is probably going to be a long story so bear with me. So my girlfriend has been friends with this guy since last year (we're in high school) but she's basically friends with everyone she's the outgoing girl and has a lot of friends that she isn't necessarily close to but can high five in the hallway or something like that when she sees them. She started getting closer to him when he started liking a friend of hers and she got involved with the whole thing and long story short the girl ended up rejecting her friend. Then they started talking more about it and stuff and how her other friend totally said she liked him but then said no when she asked him out. And one time when she was talking to him in the hallway right after class, she accidentally put her hands in his pockets (which is something she usually does to me when we're talking or hugging or alone together) and she flipped out about it and stuff and i was kinda weirded out by it and just assumed it just meant she was pretty comfortable around him. So then an incident happened where she kissed me on the cheek when i was leaving and a teacher that didn't happen to like me saw, so i got kicked off of the school wrestling team and put in lunch detention for a week. (we have a very strict no touch policy at our school-_-) so they've been hanging out at lunch because I'm not there and she's like shared her food with him if that means anything and she's started sitting at his table because the girl that he asked out is glaring at her because she is spending so much time with him. And her birthday came up and we were all watching a movie and she coincidentally ended up sitting by him and were mostly touching the entire time. Im a shy kid so she was talking to him most of the time too. She knows that i don't like him. But he's her friend so i try to respect that. She throws things at him playfully and also hits him playfully. I know all of this sounds bad but she is grateful to have me and i love her.
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Your very young so that's always tough. She's moved on and not treating you properly and not handeling the situation well. You do not need this shit. If you confront her I doubt you will sort anything out. I know this sounds patronising but the reason for that is because you are so young and relationships a really hard and you have a lot to learn.
It will really hurt but my advise is dump her now, before you get more hurt when she cheats or makes you look stupid. Hold you head high and end it. Get your head in some sports and studies and music and learn your first skill and lesson in life on how to move on from some one you love and it will set you up for life.
Just so know, it will get better for I'm currently super crazy for a shy quiet guy total crush! I even asked him out! And Im really nice and pretty hot (so iv been told;). .. There will be some else to love and someone to love you. dump her and come out of this mess on top, then move on and then meet someone else and become the winner that you are! Growing up is really really tough... take some advise and use the offer of support from the guys on here, you will need it.0