Honestly, I don't think a lot of white guys are attracted to middle eastern women in general and they are often very religious or they have a strict family. Muslims and Islam don't have a good image right now and more people are becoming atheist, so anyone who looks like they're involved with Islam, will most likely not be appealing. Looking up about it, Scandinavia seems to be one of the most atheist countries in the world so religion could be a huge part of it.
Either way, there will always be white guys who find middle eastern women attractive and it's possible a white man already thinks you're attractive so don't concern yourself with it that much.
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honestly im betting its because they think due to religion or your families culture you won't be interested in a non muslim or non middle eastern guy. there's quite a lot in my country that really like middle eastern girls because of how exotic and unique they look but dont bother to pursue them because they think its a guaranteed rejection
its not that they don't find you attractive but they have a perception girls like you need to marry someone of their own religion
The other girls may not be getting as much attention as you think. Also taking some initiate may help. From my experience I've found girls will often do that, especially if I get to know them in a social setting.
Yes some may like white women more but I think it depends.
If you're measuring their confidence based on frequency of approaching women, that seems like an inaccurate way.
I actually know a Swedish guy with a middle eastern wife.
I think some aren't interested but some would be. But many would be - extra - shy because they might think you're not open to dating non Muslim guys.
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I'm from scandinavia. Middle eastern girls look ok to me. I prefer east Asians and white but after that middle eastern girls and latinas. But islam really is a problem for me. I wouldn't want my future kids to be influenced by it in even a minor way. And I would also not be able to live with a muslim woman as some core values of islam are against mine. Like sexism, homophobia etc. Why dont you get together with some muslim guy. Dont you think we made it clear that we dont have any interest in you?
They probably think you're an Islamic terrorist. As a Causasian male, I know I sure think middle eastern women are terrorist jihad breeders. I wouldn't date a middle eastern lady unless she was a Chaldean Christian. I think Persian women are beautiful, but wow are they ever screwed up. I don't want to have a son who's going to go fight for ISIS. So yeah, it's the whole Muslim thing. It's ruined the middle east. That's why the middle east sucks.
That's interesting you say they are less confident, wonder if thats because of feminism or what. If you notice in Muslim societies the men still generally have control over the women, women have less freedoms but maybe it also might make the guys more confident.
can't ask a question like that unless you have met ALL white/european guys. Including the ones in Europe and other countries too.
I can't explain it. You sound like you could be beautiful (I mean I only know what you told us) so I can't understand it. Maybe most guys are really shy there.
It's due to preconceived concepts due to your origins. They probably think you're not interested in them, or that you're not allowed to be with them.
i like any girl, especcially a approachable one. im white as they come by the way (galic welsh and italian)
Guys tend to go after girls they're comfortable with. Since girls of their ethnicity are what they grew up with it makes them more comfortable. You basically need to make them feel comfortable.
So you like nordic guys then? what ethnicity are you?
you have succeeded dating one now?Xenophobia. Done.
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