I've been talking to this guy for 4 1/2 months now and we're still just friends. However, he asked me to come to his family Thanksgiving and Christmas, go to his work Christmas party, spent the night at my house, wanted me to spend the night at his house, kissed me, etc. What kind of guy does this kind of stuff, but just wants to be friends? It drives me crazy!!
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Considering you're over 25, this guy probably is too. Since this is the case I see really two options. He's either:
- immature and afraid of commitment
- he is unsure of how he views his future with you and is being extra cautious as to not hurt your feelings because he does care about you as a friend
In the second case there may be you can do something help persuade his feelings one way or another, in the first case you're best to cut your losses and move on as far as romantic interests are concerned.0