I have no idea what to do now. I met. This guy in July. Neither of us were ready for a relationship. He just got out of one and I was still recovering from my last. Regardless since day one we have been talking non stop, literally every day, throughout the day. We are very busy people, he has always made time to see me. Last September we for the first and only time talked about feelings. Didn't go into to much details, but made sure we were on the same page. Which was that neither of us were looking for a relationship at the moment, but when we were, if we were still friends, we could be in one together. Because we were not committed we were free to see who ever and do what ever we like. I personally wouldn't have minded the commitment with out the title, but he didn't and so I went along with it. I tried really hard to do everything right, so this time maybe things could work out for me. I have the worst luck, but tried to learn from all my mistakes in the past. I made sure to not come on strong, but still in small ways let him know he was important to me/ that I was thinking of him. I gave him his space, I wouldn't get jealous when he spoke of other ladies, I stayed confident. His actions towards me helped, for the first time a gentleman was making me feel special vs the other way around. Things were going well I loved getting to know him on all these other levels, found it to be good foundation. It seemed our friendship was being uped, we started cuddling after and sometimes instead of our hook ups, he invited me to a special event, I finally started to open up about my past. Like to me relationship seemed not to far away... then tonight, he warns me. He has been taking to another lady, they are hitting it off well, and it may turn into a bf/gf thing. WHAT? Is how I felt, and ill admit I freaked out a little... but now I don't know what to even make of this. Do I give up and just accept his friendship, do i try to win him over?
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I don't have much experience with relationships and such, but I think it would be wise to give him time. If he is still interested in you, then I doubt his relationship with this new girl will become too serious. Keep doing what you've been doing, maybe drop subtle hints, and see what happens!0