I've been sleeping with this guy from work about once a week for a month now.
I'm leaving in another month so it's only casual & in once said to him that all I want is a bit of fun.
The thing is he used to message me all the time, he once kissed me goodbye in the morning etc. but even though we still slept together this weekend, no kiss goodbye, & barely any messaging.
His relative we were partying with even said that his grandfather called me his girlfriend. He got quite defensive at this saying 'I have no girlfriend!'
I still enjoy having sex with him & that isn't stopping! But I think that after he's stopped everything & started getting annoyingly defensive, i'm starting to like him...
I also hate he doesn't message me anymore!
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This is why casual relationship's are bullshit. When you have sex with someone you have feeling's or a connection that cannot be ignored to begin with. Start messaging him more and throw subtle hints that you might want more. It might take you some time if this guy already wear's his heart on his sleeve because of what he think's you want. Just don't come off as your all of a sudden desperate for his attention and say thing's like i usually only do this kind of stuff when im in a relationship. Just be really subtle and keep the conversation's going and play it cool. Chances are he does have feeling's as i said there is no such thing as casual and no feelings. Start messaging him once in awhile it will take time.0