I know i know you probably all think oh you will meet one someday. But honestly i dont think i will.
Im 22 and never had a boyfriend. I've always had crushes on guys and dated jerks.
I have been on 5 real dates with the same guy and at the end he said he wasn't looking for anything serious because he had no time.. he was perfect.
I dont know where to meet guys, I've tried dating sites.. tinder.. bars.
I just honestly feel like there is no man out there for me.. all my friends have a boyfriend and here i am always alone. I dont know what to do.. life is lonley being alone all the time.. i try to keep myself busy everyday but at the end of the day im tired of coming home to an empty home.
I dont know what to do.. i tried tinder again but my friend was like stop being desperate.. and i dont want to be desperate.. but the normal way i doubt ill find someone.
How do i cope with this?
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You are asking the right question "How do I cope with this?". The answer is you don't. Period. You accept the way things are, you accept yourself. If you can't be happy with/by yourself, then trust me, a relationship is not for you. Don't you know the people that usually "look" attractive are the people that enjoys their life in some ways? The people that love themselves. If you think that you are not going to be happy without a boyfriend then chances are, guys won't come up to you because you will emit this depressed vibe all over. Now would you want to be with a miserable person? Build a life that would be interesting for guys to join in and you won't have to "go up to guys".
You will find love, most people do, but never with that mindset. Build in yourself qualities that you want from a man. You are 22, you are not old, just try to be happy with whatever is going on with your life. Your friends have a boyfriend, but ir is not a guarantee that they are happier than you, being in a relationship has troubles as much as being alone does if not more.
If you cannot be happy by yourself, you have no right to bring someone else to your unhappy life.0