SO i had sex with her, she was pregnant from me, had a fail birth, than she talks to me openly about seeing this other guy, who is just a friend who slept over. she didn't hide it from me and told me she didn't do anything with him. Our relationship is purely physical, not because i want it to be but she does, last Friday , Saturday we were very intimate again, not really had sex but close to it. than Sunday i tried to do something nice for her, she overreacted and got angry about nothing. yesterday, i told her can you stop being angry, she told me she wasn't angry. well i went to her place and she was all but nice to me, than i decided to start talking about other stuff, and she cooled off, and we sat on the sofa, she lay on me and we were just chatting, etc.. all good, in the beginning of the evening she said some stuff she knows upsets me, she isn't really my gf, but we like each other a lot. sorry i dont believe in friends with benefits relationships, i dont just have sex with any random girl, and neither does she with guys, but she admits she sees a lot of guys. she rather has guyfriends than girlfriends, but i dont trust those guys. yes she is prone to irresponsible and damaging behavior, when we had sex, she was actually cheating on her bf with me, well her bf back than was an obvious worthless guy, i got the intention she didn't really love him. well obviously she didn't, else she wouldn't cheated. She has mental problems, thats obvious, she is a damaged girl. I think she has borderline, and i really get sad and angry about all these guy friends, some are just utter scummbags, i dont want her to do something stupid, i really like her and care for her, but what do you people think, does she have a personality disorder, she has massive mood swings, her opinion about me changes from day to day, im all good, or all bad ( for no real reason ). no i won't give up on her, she also had a good side to her, what could be wrong with her
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She could be borderline or bipolar (they are often misdiagnosed for each other) since the self destructive behaviour, promiscuity, idolizing/hating you...
You can love and support her but she has to seek professional help if she has a problem. All that you're experiencing now will just grind you down, slowly but surely.1
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