Is it even worth dating a guy who isn't over this ex? Will you always be second best if you do? Should you just move on?
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I think you should be his friend, and be yourself and show him what a healthy relationshihp might look like. Trust me, guys get sick of , "evil crazies" as you so correctly put it. Being with these types of women are like riding a roller coaster except no where near as much fun! The emotional highs and lows lead to "rushes" of neurotransmitters (chemicals in the brain that stimulate feelings and emotions) and lead to an addiction to the wild swings between the highs and lows of the ride (read relationship...).
If he doesn't see that you are offering him a better quality relationship, there maybe other issues that he needs to deal with that might indicate to you that he is not in a place where he can enjoy a sane sensible relationship.
Trust me there are guys out there your age who are looking for a great girl like you. Give this guy a chance if you want, but don't have any expectations and know when it's time to move on.4