when a man wants to talk to a woman or ask her on a date, how do women like to be approached?
let's assume for a second the women are actually attracted to someone other than Ryan Gosling, when a woman seems to be attracted to you from a far, what would she like best for you to say?
what would you like a man to say or do when approaching you?
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First of all, I myself do not find Ryan Gosling attractive - at all. No way, José.
Second of all - how to approach a woman. This might sound contradictory, but bear with me: I personally hate when a guy doesn't get straight to the point. Instead, he attempts to flirt with me for too long, tell me jokes maybe, tries to appear charming, etc. If you are interested, let me know. At the same time, don't be aggressive because you may end up frightening the woman. Or catching her off guard, and then she won't be able to act normally because she'll be too busy trying to get over the fact that this guy popped out of nowhere and is now trying to pursue her. Runnnn! (Maybe I'm overdramatizing it, but that's how I feel.)
I would like a man to gently approach me and say "hi." Don't - and I repeat DON'T - stare at her. It's already an embarrassing situation, so look down every once in a while or something, and ask her name. Get a SHORT, casual conversation going, and then ask her out. (E. g. don't beat around the bush.)
I asked a guy out, and what I said was, "I know this is gonna sound weird 'cause we don't know each other, but do you want to go out some time?" I said that after asking what his name was. If I had beat around the bush, he probably would've wondered, "Who is this girl? What does she want from me?"
Sometimes it helps to think about how you yourself would like to be approached. However, keep in mind that if, for example, you like aggressive women, don't automatically assume that girls like an aggressive guy. Just use your common sense, be polite, go about it gently and quietly, don't scare her, embarrass her, or do anything that would make you uncomfortable. Remember: you have to be comfortable too, so if something doesn't seem right, don't do it.
I wish you all the luck in the world. :)2