So I met her this Tuesday. I asked her if we can meet on the weekend for a coffee. She said Ok to it, although I didn't say the word "date" out. I guess she got the message anyway. Well if we can call this a date.. Coz it is a meeting after all.
So after the first meeting, when I asked her for contact details (I asked EITHER name or phone nr but then she gave name , plus said that the phone nr on the Facebook profile. )
What do you think her thoughts are?
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When I ask most girls out to lunch or coffee, they know/assume it's a date (and this includes one who wanted to clarfy whether it was a date I was asking her on). I kind of label these as pre-dates, a chance to get to know the person, without the pressure of any date business to go with it. Perhaps if you're thinking of making it clear you'd like to see her again in that context, suggest you go do something you have in common or both enjoy (i. e. not coffee again). Do take it slow, though, or she might just think you want to get into her pants for kicks0