Guys, do you sometimes wish you had a vagina?

[His_Baby]

If you do, why? What would you do if you did? And what do you think drives these desires?

[Wheely]

I would love to have a vagina, as well as the rest of it all. Basically be a girl. I started feeling this way just after I hit puberty. Before hitting puberty, I discovered how amazing orgasms felt. Even though I'm a guy, back then my first couple of years of orgasms nothing squirted out of me. Every time I would have an orgasm, I would just keep coming and coming and coming, nonstop contractions until I couldn't take it anymore. Once I got going, I could take a break and then almost instantly be back into having orgasmic contractions. As I hit puberty, naturally I had my first ejaculation. With that came and inability to have multiple continuous orgasms anymore. I basically got really upset about that, and hated it.

Shortly after, I learned that girls can have multiple orgasms, and some of their descriptions that I read reminded me of the ones I used to have. Of course, I became more and more intrigued and developed a strong interest in being a girl. I started wearing women's clothing, and would envision having a vagina whenever I masturbated. I still feel that way to this day!

As far as what it would look like, I would love to have nice full lips down there. The wetter the better, soft and fleshy. I would figure myself all the time, and also enjoy my scent. If I were lucky enough to be reborn in a woman's body, I would want to be bisexual so I could enjoy both sides of the spectrum. I would like to feel the hard throbbing thickness of a large dick deep in my pussy while my face is buried in another woman's orgasmic wetness.

Believe it or not, I would also like to experience what it's like to have a period. I love when girls I date get really horny around that time, especially when she's totally comfortable w/ me fingering her and making her orgasm while she has it. I wouldn't mind mine to be heavy the first day or two, just not last more than four days - and I would love to be blessed with no cramps!

As u can see I've thought about this a lot :-)

[spellinger]

I would love to have a vagina and have a cock penetrate me deep. I know how you feel.

[ArrRenn]

@spellinger that is one of my reasons, too. What I have heard and read from women about how it feels to have that space filled by a penis for the first time leaves me powerfully curious. My late beloved, on the other hand, had a disorder that made normal penetration painful... and I wish I could know what she knew (and could not know).

[SomeGuy37]

I wish that there was a way for both genders to trade places, for a month, or so, not just a day, or something stupid!! I wish I could know what my GF feels with her period, or going to they Gyno. I wish she could feel what I do, being a guy, with all the social stigmas, and expectations!!
Go ahead, baby, cry, as a guy, and see if you can get out of that speeding ticket!! Try not to feel like a LOSER, calling AAA when you don't know how to change the tire on the car you had for a year and a half!!
But then she could say, 'Try those lacy things you want me to wear, and feel how they chafe!!' or what does a yeast infection feel like, or going to the Gyno!!
I think that the world would be so much better, if there was a way for us to change places, for a month or so!!
Who would you change places with?

[His_Baby]

Trading places would allow us all to understand each other more and empathise ever better but I'm sure it would take the fun out of everything 😁

[SomeGuy37]

I think it would make things more exciting, when you changed back, maybe having discovered some things being the other!! What those things might be could be physical, maybe experiences, feelings, or role-playing as your original gender, having felt the others. I'm not going to even suggest any of those with all the haters and Homophobes here. PM if you want to share.

[tiredofwaiting]

Though I don't want a cock. Having a vag has a lot of cons. It should come with a manual seriously lol.

[XEmmaSigsX]

Trust me guys you don't want a vagina. periods fucking suck

[Nifrayu]

@Janeishere uncut is a lot better that cut.

[existing_not_living]

I sometimes wish I had a dick.

[His_Baby]

You get penis envy

[existing_not_living]

Yeah, I mean, how unfair is it that guys get sexually stimulated so quickly and get a lot of pleasure, while us girls have a hard time.

[His_Baby]

That's true, they have it so easy, but I'm sure they appreciate it less lol

[KillerTaco]

Me too! I'd probably the biggest man hoe alive...

[existing_not_living]

They do I bet. But that's just how life is. :/ Lol, I know, same! @KillerTaco

[moviedude714]

why? then you would be expected to approach and take the lead all the time, initiate/escalate things

[ImagineRelease]

Just tell people you have a vagina and lots of folks will ask if you need to borrow their dicks lol

[existing_not_living]

I only wished for a penis, not everything else that came along with it. Lol. Plus I'd want one of those disappearing penises. You know, the kind that only appeared when I wanted it to.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

What if it was 2 inches... see being a guy isn't that easy lol, at least with a vagina girls usually don't have to worry about how it looks, pussy is pussy. But a guy born with 2 inches is screwed.

[existing_not_living]

Girls worry about how our vaginas look. It's not so easy for us.

[moviedude714]

everything comes with it's pros and cons i guess

[existing_not_living]

True dat @moviedude714 lol

[moviedude714]

the only aspect i sometimes wish of having a vagina is when it comes to getting laid, getting a date or relationship, but the other parts, periods, pregnancy, child-birth, then no thank you, i've heard studies shown that a man would not be able to endure that, he wouldn't survive that, the giving birth part

[existing_not_living]

Well that makes me feel really great about my impending doom as I give birth to my future children.

[koko124]

"Yeah, I mean, how unfair is it that guys get sexually stimulated so quickly and get a lot of pleasure, while us girls have a hard time." It's actually perfectly fair when you look at the consequences that it implies (which are good for women and bad for men)

[existing_not_living]

@Koko124 - You're startin' to sound a little misogynistic...

[existing_not_living]

Also having a vagina comes with a lot of bad things too. Stop acting like guys have it completely worse. There are drawbacks for both genders.

[koko124]

On the contrary, your comment sounded a bit misandristic :) There is no evidence that men attain "more pleasure" from sex, and insinuating that they do only reinforces bitter gender stereotypes

[existing_not_living]

"Yeah, I mean, how unfair is it that guys get sexually stimulated so quickly and get a lot of pleasure, while us girls have a hard time." - First, I was being mildly sarcastic with that comment. Second, it IS easier for a guy to get sexually stimulated. It's easier for a guy to get an orgasm than it is for a girl. I'm not saying they get more pleasure from sex itself. I'm saying that if they are masturbating or even if they did have sex, it would be easier for them to orgasm. I don't really care if I orgasm that much within my lifetime - at least not right now, but it was really just a joke that was obviously misinterpreted. @koko124

[ArrRenn]

@existing_not-living:: I cannot speak for all males, but your description is not universal. Easy arousal is something I get, but “get a lot of pleasure” is not... not sure why, but it is always over too soon and not likely to start again soon. Having a penis is not the golden ticket. I actually spend more enjoyable time engaging orally. For me, the idea of wanting a vagina (or just going with the whole package) has more to do with my (possibly skewed) perspective that women can pick which man they want, while men have to try to impress as many women as they can to try to get even one to say “yes”. Not saying my perspective is accurate.

[22ill]

@existing_not_living It sounds to me like you’ve not had the best experiences. I have a dick and have a lot of trouble climaxing and get very little pleasure from it. The main reason for why a lot of people with vaginas are dissatisfied is because people with penises don’t have the skills or emotional depth to be good lovers. You will find someone who will rock your world.

[JKelly78]

I am not sure why you think men have it easier? We are not even considered men in women's eyes if we do not make a certain amount of money, we will get passed up and called a looser and many other things if we do not have a certain muscle definition to our bodies and we will even get looked down upon if we have less in the pants than other men do. While I will agree 100% it must suck having a period once a month, but would any of you women like to be pressured into providing for your family? This includes but not limited to making enough money to pay the bills each month, providing a roof to sleep under, food to eat and beverages to drink, or how about being pressured into protecting the family. Before anyone of you responds to how its unfair that men get payed more in the working world. I can tell you why, there is a very easy yet rational explanation for this. We only get payed more because we are responsible for everything. As far as sex goes and being sexually stimulated quicker, this does not apply to all of us. All of you can get it quicker than a man can, none of you have to jump through hoops or make an ass out of yourselves just to be sexually attracted to. Some of you to most of you may have a harder time getting stimulated quicker but you also last longer. While most of us have to wait a minimum of 6-8 hours before going again. Once a man is done, we are done. I would easily give up being a man for a woman any day. Just like I would give up technology for happiness and relive my life in the 80s again.

[funkipunk]

Nahh.. not really. I sometimes wish I had boobs though.

Then I could play with them; they just look so cozy... I kinda wish I had a pair of my own! Maybe just for a day... to see what they're like haha

[His_Baby]

You wouldn't be able to lie on them, perhaps get some portable boobs

[funkipunk]

I'd play with them a lot though. I'd feel em all over, see how sensitive they are, I'd even go bra shopping! I'd wanna see how good I look in sexy lace bra!

[His_Baby]

Haha I'm sure you would look very sexy in a lace bra

[funkipunk]

haha, kind of an odd compliment, but thank you!

[His_Baby]

Well it's not something you hear everyday so that's a very unique compliment lol

[ImagineRelease]

yes as many as I can get

[His_Baby]

Hahaha

[mortonc57]

Sometimes I get tired of having something flopping between my legs, or getting hard and embarrassing at the wrong moment, or having balls always sweaty and draped on your inner thighs.
I'd love to know what it's like to not have these issues, even just for a little bit.
So if I were a girl, I'd love to know what it would be like to squeeze into a tight pair of lululemons, and walk, sit and stand with everything nice and tightly packed in.
Or put on a tight leotard, sit in a side split, and not worry about my balls hitting the floor or falling out the side.

[aamy811]

Even I don't want a vagina and I have one

[truthbeknown]

Sometimes I am curios as to what being penetrated feels likes, if it feels as good to me (with a dick) as it would if I had a vagina. How does masturbating or using a vibrator feel, stuff like that.

[His_Baby]

Thanks for your answer :)

[abzence]

Never.
They are great and all. But I prefer one on a lovely lady and not on me.

[Maxenios]

Well, this may sound weird to some people.
I always wish I had a vagina myself. Forever.
I also often feel neither male nor female and wish there was a way to temporarily (but indefinitely) change my appearance accordingly, but I kind of wouldn't want to completely give up my penis either. I don't think my genitals are really that deciding about my gender, so it probably wouldn't be too bad to be a guy with a vagina, or girl with a dick for that matter. If I had to choose though, I'm not sure which I would rather be. Both if possible, including all sides of the spectrum, so I could experience every facet of being female (and/or male) and every facet of intimacy as well, and some of it even at the same time. In that context, I would more often want to be a girl-person or an effeminate guy-person.

[ArrRenn]

“The Left Hand of Darkness” by Ursula K LeGuin

[thelionting]

I've always wanted a day to be in a girls body just to understand them more

[His_Baby]

Interesting :) would you masterbate?

[Arianna16]

same but in a guys body

[thelionting]

Yeah.. I'd wanna know the difference in orgasm.. And probably would teach me to know how to press a girls buttons easier :)

[His_Baby]

It definitely would help you. Well it's good you would use your vagina experience to better your sex life and abilities

[thelionting]

Yes :)

[YourFutureEx]

I'm scared to answer, hope you got my feelings.

[His_Baby]

I have your feelings dude

[YourFutureEx]

Haha.. I think I said everything what I want & what I'll do.

[His_Baby]

Lol well I'm sure we know what's happening here

[YourFutureEx]

OMG! I won't mind for one day only lol.

[His_Baby]

If I could borrow you my vagina for the day I would- justsaying

[YourFutureEx]

It'd be pleasure for me- metoo

[His_Baby]

Lol 🙊

[pharaoh_lover48118]

no ma'm thank you very much I prefer my stick

[kheserthorpe]

To be honest, never not even once in my life for a second.

[His_Baby]

That's a shame lol

[HorrorFan]

Not really. There's no real added benefit to it. You have to sit to pee. You bleed every month. You carry children for 9 months and then push them through a hole too small. Yeast infections, etc.

I'd turn into an entire chick for a little while to see what it felt like to orgasm and whatnot, but that would have to come with the whole package boobies and all.

I wouldn't want to otherwise be the same person except now I have a mangina.

[His_Baby]

Well if you could have it for a week, would you jump at the chance

[HorrorFan]

I would, yeah. Sex and masturbation could be fun. Seeing what it's like to have the opposite sex potentially hit on me a bit would be fun. I'd do it for sure.

[His_Baby]

Cool, well at least your honest about it

[ladsin]

Sure, just for a short time mind you. I'd enjoy figuring out what does and doesn't feel good to a woman, plus i'd enjoy playing with myself and giving myself the oh so fabled multiple orgasms.

[His_Baby]

Would you sleep with a guy to get the full experience?

[ladsin]

no... i would use dildos and the like though, most guys don't know how to please a woman, and i'm not attracted so it would be worthless.

[anastasis]

No. I seem to be content enough with my basic issue honey rod. It a functional meat and potatoes unit and is low maintaince. I'm fine with that. Nothing fancy, just a basic vehicle to get me from point a to pint b.

[His_Baby]

Haha honey rod lol

[ArrRenn]

“Meat and potatoes”. LOLOLove it!!!

[mr90skid]

I used to imagine having both a vagina and a dick so I could literary fuck myself..

[His_Baby]

LOOL never heard that before

[thewanderingme]

you would have to have a really long or flexible weiner

[His_Baby]

Lol well yh I guess that's true lol

[mr90skid]

@thewanderingme I was think along the line as sticking it in when I soft and then getting horny and watching it grow inside my vag. Before I get fully hard and risk... breaking my dick... I'd quickly, somehow, "stroke" myself by opening and closing my legs really fast.

[thewanderingme]

I'm amazed you've actually thought that through before. wouldn't work though. hermaphrodites only ever have one of their gentalia actually work.

[His_Baby]

Lol it's interesting the sexual thoughts people have :)

[mr90skid]

@thewanderingme I'm surprised how this thought isn't common. We hear the insult "go fuck yourself", all the time so why not wonder about it lol I assumed it would of crossed most people's mind. I thought all this out when I was like 9 right after watched p*rn for the first time. O. o That sucks ass for hermaphrodites lol but they still get the lucky opportunity of being able to finger themselves and jack off at the same time which is bucketlist worthy... not many people can say they have.

[mr90skid]

@Asker Too me, the mind becomes more "powerful" when the individual is horny lol

[thewanderingme]

you're still not getting it. either their vagina works or their penis works. not both.

[mr90skid]

@thewanderingme I know what you mean. I meant you can still physically finger you vagina and stroke you penis at the same time, even if only one works. I think I'd record myself doing that, without my face being in the shot though.

[Klaatu51]

nah i'd find it more difficult to masturbate

[His_Baby]

Whys that?

[dogsteeves]

Yha why would you say that

[Klaatu51]

@dogsteeves maybe i could try u say? LOL

[zorro8888]

Other than our random erections having a penis is pretty awesome, from peeing standing up to having easier orgasms lol I can't waste 5 hours on trying to do that with a vagina haha Are you sure you don't want a penis :P

[His_Baby]

I wouldn't mind having a penis experience

[zorro8888]

Exactly rejoice in your penis envy haha

[His_Baby]

Well when I get my penis and you get your vagina I will visit you lol

[zorro8888]

Hahaha what's going to happen lol my vagina doesn't open for anyone you have to buy me dinner first then I'll put out ;)

[His_Baby]

Lol I will feed you first with my back pussy (borat) then we will proceed from there

[zorro8888]

Hahahaha I've never eaten there before, I've heard good things about the chef lol If dinner is to my standards then I'll decide if it will proceed haha

[His_Baby]

Omg, are you sure you don't have a vagina already? You're driving high standards lol

[zorro8888]

All I'm asking is a good dinner not a ring on my finger haha Fine you persuaded me **leads you to the bedrrom

[His_Baby]

Lol see now I totally get the frustrations of having a penis and not being able to get some vag lol

[zorro8888]

Haha now you can appreciate the male gender more... You're just lucky I didn't ask if you loved me haha

[His_Baby]

Ooo shit *runs away* too soon too soon Next you will be asking to meet the family

[zorro8888]

Where do you see us in the long run? Why do they always run after I give myself to them **cries uncontrollably

[His_Baby]

Long run? Bitch I don't even know your name

[zorro8888]

I thought what we shared last night was special... I did things I never thought I would for you My name isn't bitch it's Samantha JERK xD

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yeah, i want hairy vagina of my own so i can stroke my clit and lips
i want be able to explore it and have a camel toe, look at it in mirror
while i finger every inch of it and i want be able to smell it mmmm

[Error_204]

What are they good for exactly?

[His_Baby]

I thought you already had one so you tell me

[Error_204]

I can't imagine the depths you went to and the trials you overcame for that retort. I should respect it and play along. "Are you calling me a pussy?"

[His_Baby]

Maybe...

[Error_204]

"That is so rude! I am so offended! My masculinity is under attack! Help me, manbrothers!" @Keyspirits @Mesonfield @HorrorFan @ladsin Defend me brothers!

[His_Baby]

"Said the vagina" 🙊

[Error_204]

"... Which then coughed up blood from defeat."

[His_Baby]

Eww period blood

[Error_204]

Black and clumpy! :D

[His_Baby]

Omg that frigging gross hahaha

[Error_204]

It's real. It happens.

[Sparrow24]

Hahahahahaha!

[JackKerouac77]

Nah, not really. Periods.

[funkipunk]

hahaha... this pretty much sums it up!

[His_Baby]

Lol perhaps you will be more sympathetic now

[JackKerouac77]

I've always been sympathetic. That shit sucks.

[His_Baby]

Well having a vagina never hurt anyone