So first off, I am a 19 year old female, I'm pretty good looking, nothing's wrong with me, at all, except... I can't seem to find a boyfriend. Guys just don't seem interested in me and the ones that do, are not my type. I am mostly into blonde men, nothing special you know, just the average American blonde blue eyed Cali boy.
But somehow, these types of guys never seem to like me, I only get hit on by rather exotic looking guys.. not that that's a bad thing, I am not racist of trying to offend anybody it just seems weird to me, like, why would these guys flirt with me and the ones I actually like won't?
Also, most people I know are happily in love and I always end up being single... I've only been with 2 guys in my entire life but that didn't last... long.
These 2 guys only wanted to hook up with me, the first one, at least, had the decency to take me to a "final date" and say goodbye and stuff, as for the second one (some spoiled little prep school kid whos dad's an actor), i never heard from him after our one night stand (?) i dont even know what to call it because we didn't actually get to have sex. Never been in a relationship, wtf is wrong with me?
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You're single because you turn away guys that are interested in you. That's really about it.
Blonde and blue-eyed are not common. Both of those are recessive traits. You are fishing in a small pond, and that's only from the two traits you've mentioned. When you start applying the unspoken requirements (tall, decent job, car, attractive, wants a relationship, etc.), you cut your pool of potential guys down to almost nothing, and you're competing with all of the other girls that like blonde blue-eyed attractive guys. Remember, your dating pool is only made up of the people that want to date you. What are you doing to stand out?
If you want something you're not getting, then either take what you're getting, or go get what you want. Consider doing any (or all) of the following:
-Take the initiative with the guys you want
-Better yourself physically
-Better your personality
-Lower your standards1