there's this guy I've been on a couple dates with. I really like him as a person, but he's not the fittest guy around. he's got a little bit of what some might call a beer belly. he's really not that big, I would probably say he's 6'2" and 200 pounds. But I'm a swimmer so I'm used to seeing extremely fit guys in speedos. he's mentioned that he's going to start working out, but I'm just worried that if I'm not extremely physically attracted to him now, if this relationship continues it won't work out.
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We all want to say "looks don't matter", and that's what a lot of people already say, but deep down we all know that looks DO matter - to some extent. I mean, despite how nice, funny, etc. he is, imagine having to see an ugly person's face everyday...
That doesn't mean that looks/body are the most important things about a guy. There are so many other things that are more important. The first guy I ever REALLY liked wasn't attractive at all (to me), but I fell in love with his personality, humor, talent, intelligence, etc. and then his appearance didn't mean anything anymore.
My point is, personally, as long as I can stand to look at him everyday it's okay if he's not the best looking guy.2