So I have this problem and it happens all the freaking time. Everytime I like a guy he acts disinterested until I actually move on and don't like him anymore.
I have had it where I have liked a guy and he didn't seem to care and then once I moved on he kept chasing after me for like years...
Why does this keep happening? How can I get a guy to like me at the same time because it's like by the time they like me I feel hurt and rejected and would never go out with them again.
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It's just like that famous saying 'you don't know what you have until it's gone,' so when you lose interest in them is when they start to realize that they should have given you a chance. Also, guys prefer to do the chasing as opposed to being chased so maybe try not to be too forward with them and give them some time to realize on their own what they're missing out on. Or you could do the complete opposite and tell them straight you like them hoping that they are the type of guy that likes it when a girl is confident and straightforward.0