can't they really improof on themselves, when they look for help themselves, this girl im seeing did look for help herself, but at the same time, keeps seeing people that couldnt care less about her. i am struggling, im emotionallz drained, i feel empty at most and i have a short fuse. were im trying to steer her to the right direction these people let her do irresponsible things and i can't really do anything about it, she probably will get angry, but im going to write her a letter, telling her how i see her life. smoking weed, can make you lose custody over your child, drinking till you are drunk with people like this, won't give you true fun. man i really wanted to give her this letter, before she will leave to holiday tomorrow, but i have no time to do so. i need time to write a good letter. by the way i think she bpd
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Neurological problems... like BPD do not correct. They are treatable... but the treatments sometimes stop working. I am very sorry to write this, because I have beloved family members with BPD... However less than 10% of people with BPD can sustain a marriage more than ten years. And ask their exes... the last half of the marriage was awful... if not the whole marriage. Many people coming out of marriage with BPD people develop PTSD from all the needless drama and trauma.
The last 10% that stay married are married to super-religious or super-codependent people. (or they have a trust fund)0