I'm about to be 24 in a month, also he just turned 30 2 weeks ago. I'm a little nervous talking to someone who's that older than me. The oldest guy I dated was just 2 years older than me. But this guy is pretty chill. Should I just see where it goes? Or is that to much of a difference and he might have maturity issues?
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That's nothing. The older you get, the less a year means. Huge difference between someone 23 dating a 16 year old (eww) and a 30 year old with a 23/almost 24 year old. I think I met my girlfriend when she had just turned 23 and was about to turn 28. We're still together, I'll be 36 in two months, and she turns 31 (29 if she asks what I told you :-P ) next month. Once you're 23, 24 years old, pretty much anyone is fair game, we're all adults here, just depends on what you're cool with and how much the age affects your ability to relate to each other. But if you like him, go for it! Good luck!2