We met on a dating site about a month ago. We spoke 24/7 for 2 weeks before meeting up. On our first date, we ate, talked & played video games+spent time with some of my friend (so it wouldn't be too awkward). He didn't try to kiss me, which is understandable since we had just met.
On our second date, he told me to be at his house at 10am because he wanted to cook me breakfast. I spent the day at his house and even slept over. We watched movies/talked. He did everything to take care of me (since I had a little cold). He did everything to make me feel comfortable. He was really sweet and told me how he couldn't believe I had never had a boyfriend, since ''I am perfect''. We cuddled ALL NIGHT. He didn't try to kiss me at all though nor tried to have sex with me. He even told me I was the first girl that he brought in his bed that he hadn't kissed and had sex with. As soon as I got home, I had a message from him. He keeps talking to me 24/7. We REALLY get along and have the same interests.
Also, he texts/messages me almost 24/7. He always sends me goodnight and good morning texts. He keeps telling me that I'm perfect and a ''woman to marry''. One time, he even drunk-texted me telling me that I was beautiful, that he wanted to meet my parents and that I had to present him to my friends if things worked out between us. He told me that he was looking for a serious relationship. BUT he also said something on our 2nd date about how relationships can't really work if they start from a dating website and how he doesn't really want a relationship right now... (which isn't really coherent). But he is, still texting me 24/7 & making plans for our next date... (he is the one starting the conversations 75-85% of the time). He likes me but:
Why didn't he kiss me? Is it because he has a lot of respect for me? Does he want a relationship with me?
I really like him, but I don't want my hopes to get high for nothing
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From where I am sitting, MartineVoisine, he May have Thought at One point in time on this 'Second date' That-------If they start from a dating website and how he doesn't really want a relationship now... But had second thoughts on the matter spending More time with you, getting More comfy and cozy.
He seems to have a lot of respect for you. He knows too you are this precious jewel and will Not make a move to touch something which isn't "His" right now, until he is sure about his feelings for you and if this is going to be a Real relationship. He is going slow with his flow on one end, with no magic moves, but on the other hand, he is moving a bit quicker with having you spend the nite and telling you that you are the Perfect "Woman to marry."
Right now, this may be so overwhelming to him to Think he may have had to eat his words of finding a date mate online and it backfired. He is nursing and nurturing you, treating you like this Queen at his side, and may just find that he Really is going to stick to his saying Of-----Looking for a serious relationship.
He is giving you all the sure signs with his attention and affection that could be the One. However, until you know him better, go slow with Joe, don't wear your heart on your sleeve and if it is meant to be, old Mother Nature will plant More seeds for a ripe ol' romance down the row... so far, looking good, looking fruitful.
Good luck. xx1