Hi everyone. I'm 23 years old and I have never been kissed, dated, held hands, and I'm a virgin. I have only been asked out twice and said no. I am shy and quiet, but I prefer to talk to people one on one. I am not aware of anyone ever having a crush on me in HS or liking me, and only got asked out twice in undergrad.
I'm South Asian but I grew up in America. I'm 5'7" and slim. I'm plain looking, brown hair, brown eyes, and brown skin. I never feel pretty. Some people have told me I am, but I don't know.
I worry that I will never find someone who loves me, thinks I'm pretty, or wants to kiss me and be with me. I feel like I'm less worthy, or worthless compared to other girls. I feel left behind, or like I'm expiring or something. I feel like no one will ever really love me or think I'm attractive. I get really sad and there's no one I can talk to about it. I feel so ashamed.
What do you think? What are your opinions and how can i feel better? Please let me know. Thanks.
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I think you are fine honey! From your description you sound stunning! 5'7 AND slim? Honey you're a dime. You might be plain looking, but who ever said that wasn't beautiful? Just because you dont look like other girls doesn't mean you're worthless, you gotta stop comparing yourself to these other girls. You have to realize how amazing you are and how lucky any guy would be to have you. Polish your strengths and accept your weaknesses and "flaws" and then from within you're vibe will glow of self acceptance and confidence. You have to KNOW that you're worthy of another human beings affection and attention. I think you just need a boost in your self-esteem and confidence (:1