I have been single for a little bit. About 3 months ago I met a girl. She was clear from the start, that she was only looking for a friends with benefits , and I was clear that I was looking for the same. In the 3 months we have been together about 5-6 times. In between seeing each other (other than texting each other to coordinate our next date) we might send eachother a quick text to say hi every once in a while or the rare phone call. My point is that there is no real relationship in between the few dates we've had. Now here's the problem/question. About two weeks ago I met a girl that I'm now in a serious relationship with. I haven't seen my friends with benefits since before the new girl. Up to this point I've been friendly and texting but haven't committing to our next date. Do I keep blowing her off until she gets the message? or do I call her and tell her? do I email or text her to tell her what happened? my first choice is to continue to blow her off but I know that's wrong, my second choice is to send her an email. I really don't want to have the conversation live but I don't want to look like a coward or jerk.
Most Helpful Girl
Even an email is better than limbo. This is what happens with friends with benefits , somebody meets and commits to someone else and you try to keep the friends portion if you can. Honesty is the key.0
Most Helpful Guy
Just tell her you are dating someone, you don't need to tell her it's serious just that your seeing someone.0