What's a good excuse that won't hurt her?
Most Helpful Girl
If you want to go on the date, but are too nervous, try to push through the nervousness and see what happens.
But if you don't want to go on the date, and are trying to figure out how to get out of it, don't make an excuse. An excuse implies that there might be a next time, and if that's not going to happen, it's only going to hurt her more. There's no good way to cancel a date if you asked her out and are going back on it. You have to rip the bandaid off as kindly but as quickly as possible.
But my suggestion would be to have the first date anyway, see how it goes, and leave it at that. You might have a great time that you never expected. And if you didn't, at least you know for sure, you respected her time, and you have no obligations to go on another.0
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