A guy I have been fooling around with for a while, FINALLY asked me out last week. Only he asked me right before he got on a plane, and now we won't be able to see each other for a week or so. I don't mind being away from him; what bothers me is that I don't know how to be a girlfriend... and I'm afraid that the time we're spending apart will make things awkward.
We're both new to this.
So please, if anyone could tell me what it is a guy looks for in a relationship, that would be great.
Thanks a lot :)
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For one, we aren't looking for perfection (which is what you seem to be reaching for).
Just have a casual conversation while letting him know you can't wait till he gets back and you miss him. Guys don't require 1/5th of the maintenance girls require. A simple "Hi" from you can brighten our day.
Talk to him, however you guys do talk and let things just flow. when you start wanting to control things, he'll start thinking about leaving.0