We met on an online dating website. We've had 2 dates up to now and seem to be hitting it off pretty well. We've never discussed about it and we aren't exclusive either. He totally has the right to date other women. I, on the other hand, have stopped seeing anyone else (because I thought he had too), until I found out, today, he is seeing another girl at the same time.
But what should I do? Should I keep dating him but keep my options open too, so if it doesn't work I am not disappointed?
Should I stop dating him right now? (because it means he really isn't serious about me)
Should I ask him about it next time we see each other? (Because I am looking for a long term relationship eventually, and would like to make sure we are on the same page and I would eventually see myself with him)
PS: I can't help but feel jealous... even if he has the right to date other women... I have no right to be mad at him and I know it, but it frustrates me so much.
What I think the right thing to do would be is: Next time I see him, I'd tell him: ''You have the right to date other women if you want to. But, I, on the other hand, am looking for a serious long-term relationship and want to make sure we are on the same page and want the same thing.''
Would that be the right thing to do?
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I've been in this situation too and I know it sucks, but I would be patient for a little while longer. 2 dates is still a bit early for either of you to commit to each other, but at some point you definitely need to address it. I would wait until around 4-5 dates (by then he should at least know if he likes you enough to stop seeing other girls), and if he's still dating other girls then tell him what you typed above and see what his response is.. if by that point he still insists on dating others I would drop him.1