I'm 24 and I've never been in love before. I want a girlfriend more than anything but all girls my age either have a boyfriend or are married. And the few who are single are just not attracted to me. I don't want to be lonely for the rest of my life. Why is dating so hard for me but other men have no problem attracting girls?
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You can try working out and stick with that and once you do that you might get a lot of confidence because of the results you will be getting. You can also maybe try to get a new hairstyle or something and wear nice clothes. Doing this will make girls notice you and maybe find you attractive. Once you've done that go to a place where a lot of girls are like a bar a mall etc. or if you see a good looking women on the street try to talk to her immediately because if you wait you might get nervous. Approach them with a smile even if it's a fake smile and use your surrounds to start a conversation if you can't think of anything else to say. Then you can introduce your self and ask for her name as well, once she seems to be having a good time talking to her you can ask for her number and to hang out sometime. while your talking to her and she's smiling, touching you playing with her hair etc. these are signs she can be attracted to you but even if she's not still try to get her number. Girls love confidence so try to build some confidence also. If you have problems talking to girls try talking to everyone and saying something simple like hi to that girl in front of you of the grocery store or something then once you feel comfortable you might be able to say more.0