So im going on a double date this Saturday with a couple and a girl that i have met couple weeks ago, pretty much this is the first time meeting in person because she lived a hour or so away from where i am at.
Anyway i haven't dated anyone in ages, so i just need a brush up on everything. How to act? how to get prepared? and any other advice that will make things better? It's pretty obvious that we are both attracted to each other and we are interested. Skype for hours everyday and all of that jazz.
Any advice will help. Thanks
Additional question and i thought of, should i try and make a move on her first date or just let it be? I do, but no idea if she is gonna freak out and think i'm pushing things too fast or something?
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Double dates can be used to your advantage especially if you need to brush up on the skill of conversation and flirting. A couple things I make sure I do on double dates are be my self, realize that it's not a competition, don't consider it a date (it will only build anxiety), and make sure you get some personal time (non sexual) but separate from the other couple. When I say be your self I mean be the best you but simple don't care if she doesn't like the way you act, that will attract her to you more (seeing that you don't care about putting on a show for her). What I mean by don't consider it a date is treat her like a friend that you havnt seen in years, have a genuine interest in what she's saying and give your honest response to what she says. Make those corny jokes and then laugh about how corny they are. Treat her like a best friend (just for this night). By making sure you have personal time I mean taking a walk or separating from the other couple to dig a little in her head show her who you are, flirt a little, make her laugh on your own. And what ever you do, do not talk about your self unless she asks and even then maintain the mystery of who you are. -bighearted1