i am 18 years old from denmark and i have giving up on finding a girlfriend. I have never kissed a girl not even hooked a girl... but i am not a freak or something like that. I am together With my friends in my class most time and in the weekends we sometimes party. All my friends had a girlfriend and some have and they have afsked me why i never score girls at the parties.. I just can't do it... I get nervous.. Im shaking when i talk to girls and i just have the feeling to run away... i dont know what to do but i will soon graduate and my friends told me if i won't get a girlfriend or get laid before that i will end up a loser... It just feel wrong just to get laid... i won't a girlfriend but i am also scared of it... a lot...
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if you keep thinking like that, of course you will end up alone and as a loser.
WHY THE F*CK EVERY ONE MAKE SUCH A BIG DEAL ABOUT IT?
I see all the time girls asking: why I never had a boyfriend? I think im pretty but guy never seems to be interested in me blablabla
And guys like you wondering why am I alone :<( why? Ill die alone, im sure :<( :<( :<
here's a tip for you: im 20 in 5 days, never had a GF, never kiss, never date, but do I make a huge deal about it and cry about being alone? NO. I just dont care, I know there's someone for me, and instead of crying cause im alone, or rushing to find a GF and be unhappy with her, I just calm my tits and enjoy my life and play video game all days :)
In all honesty, if you keep thinking like that, yes you will end up as a loser.
Just change your mentality.
P. S : all my friends are douche who sleep with girls left and right and party every week. Do you think they didn't make fun of me sometimes? Of course they do, they are douche. But I just smile at them and say congratz for sleeping with a ton of girl, you must be very proud! And act like if I dont care. Because (hint hint) I really dont care :)0
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