Do guys only lock eyes with girls they are attracted to?

[Anonymous]

You know that moment you have sometimes where you see a guy from across the room and you lock eyes?

Well do guys do this with everyone? and If it happens really frequently does he like you?

[WhiteRaven]

Yes. We do it even more often if the girl does it too, showing that there's a mutual interest. Even when the girl i have currently a crush on isn't around, i try not to lock eyes with other girls.
Im planning to ask her out next time i see her.

[apple24]

boys are confusing... why can't you be direct!!

[WhiteRaven]

"direct" as in? Ask her out?
The eye contact and first talk are ways to test the waters.
Im planning to ask her out because she seems interested too, by her eye contact and conversation

We may look like robots, but guys can get affected by rejection too. The more you know, right? :o

[apple24]

what happen if they test the water too much and they never ask her out! I don't this guy personal so, I don't know if how he normal acts!

[WhiteRaven]

lol testing the water too much? As in? Only stares but doesn't talk? Either 1) he's intimidated, shy or lacks confidence or 2) He never had the opportunity to do so. For 1), that's something on which he would have to work on; nothing you do can change that. Even if you do talk to him first and break the ice, he may never have the courage to ask you out if he really lacks the confidence.
For 2), again in my case, I never had the opportunity to ask her out before because we didn't meet to often, and when we do, we would either have less than 10s to talk, or we would be interrupted by our friends. BUT im planning to ask her out next time, no matter what. Even with her friends around
(Sorry to take my case as an example, if that bothers you)

[apple24]

I pretty sure its 2... But how will i know if he married or engaged or something or if he just looking?

[WhiteRaven]

haha I guess at this point, it's just not assume the guy is any relationship. It's only after knowing him that you should ask. Don't put unnecessary barriers.

[TedStar]

I only lock eyes with girls I'm attracted too. If I do it frequently i'm probably attracted and feeding off her "vibes". Last time I really locked eyes constantly with a girl I got rejected. Eye contact is good but alone means almost nothing

[StickStickity13]

I hate to give such a vague answer but it depends. If he is shy he may not give eye contact because he is embarrassed. If he is confident the odds are good.

[artsyguy805]

Well for me it depends. A lot of times I space out and don't even mean to look at a girl but we lock eyes anyway and then she automatically assumes I'm interested in her when really I'm not.

[Asker]

Yeah but i am talking about being in different locations and he happens to do this all the the time from across the room no matter where we are. i don't think he zones out ON ME every single time.

[artsyguy805]

Oh then yeah maybe. When I do it multiple times I at least find her to be pretty.

[apple24]

I would like to know as well !

[Asker]

I know why aren't the boys answering

[apple24]

lol... why are boys so confusing? And, Like today this guy gave me a puppy eyes and I don't know why. I think he was his gf too!

[Asker]

Ugh don't even get me started with guys with gfs.. so confusing lol

[Anonymous]

Not naturally, but as we come to realize that girls believe this we stop doing it just to look.

[Ihav2fart]

In my case yes.