So I've kinda got a huge crush on a coworker of mine. (yikes). But it's fine (part time, minimum wage, workplace romances have happened before and all has been well there, no real stress).
Basically, I think he's the most wonderful guy I've ever met. And it's taken me forever to come to terms with my feelings.
So I want to do something for him.
You see, he has a career field in mind that is nearly impossible to make it in.
YET, I have family connections in it. I'm thinking about getting him a mentor, someone in his field of interest to help him out. A life changing present. Not for Christmas, for his birthday in a few months.
I don't need him to fall in love with me. I just need him to give me a chance. I'm so sick of the friend zone.
Would this help? I could be all like "I'll give you their contact info... but only after our first date. You don't have to like me, I just want a chance. Then it's yours, you never have to go out with me again if you don't want."
Extortion of sorts, haha. Would it work? Is it worth it at all?
Could giving him an awesome present help win him over?
What Guys Said 5
dont buy him.. try to get to know him more talk have a conversation... because if he likes he likes you not the present if he didn't so its just simply he doesn't of if your close to each other and it might work then... buy a him present not fancy not expensive but something he really really likes.
do u mind answering my question? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1264037-what-should-i-text-her-help-im-not-good-in-text0
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You can't win someone's affection with material things unless that person is materialistic.0
Well what work is it.0
What Girls Said 1
No... That's really just manipulation. Woman up and tell him how you REALLY feel instead of using his situation to push your agenda.
Trust me, you do not want to come off as an insecure girl who expects him to owe you a date for caring about him.0
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