I recently told one of my female friends that I would never date a girl that drank alcohol smoked or did any form of drugs. She said that was shallow of me. Is it true? I mean I wouldn't be offended if a girl dissed me for doing any of that. And I mean I dont drink smoke or do drugs either so I dont see how its weird to expect that back.
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Nope not shallow. 1: sexism is saying "I dont drink, smoke, do drugs and id like a girlfriend who's the same way". SEXISM is " I drink, smoke, and do drugs but want a girlfriend who doesn't because girls shouldn't." so thats out the door.
Every one has preferences it doesn't matter what anyone says. the only thing that should matter to you is finding someone who suits you. Now if you found a girl who's ideal in every single way and you began dating and found out that even though she doesn't drink/smke/drugs now, she drank once and you refuse to love her... thats a little shallow
but preferences are not. if that same friend gives you flak again, ask her if she would date a 500lb guy who sits at home all day and wants her to take care of him. if she says yes, she's lying, and if she says no, tell her she's being shallow. because by her standards, whether refusing to date a lifestyle of drugs/alcohol or a lifestyle of fatness and laziness, its shallow to do so.1