Going off what I've been told I'm a strong silent type. When a girl is at least reasonably outgoing and talkative, and willing to carry the conversation, I find that I can be quite "successful" while saying very little as per my personality. However, when talking to a girl who needs the guy to lead conversation and get her to talk by asking questions etc I fall flat on my face.
With quieter girls I just can't get past the first hurdle and I think I may come off as not interested. How can I keep the conversation going, preferably by getting her to talk, and how can I suggest my interest in her?
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My suggestion would be go to a place that "creates conversation" if that makes sense. For example, if I were a quiet girl and I were taken to somewhere like a movie, I might feel comfortable but then I wouldn't get to know you. If we go to dinner then it's one on one and just awkward. I would find out what she likes and go actually do something. The last guy I dated knew that I liked to hike so he took me out to a trail at night. We never stopped talking. Granted I'm not super quiet/shy but I found a lot more to talk about with him when it was something that I was actively engaged and interested in.1