One of my friends has given me advice to put myself out there more.
Apparently she has the aggressive approach when picking up men, she goes into the frame of mine when she picks up that they all want her. That they want her to chase her.
I keep reading that guys like the chase. As in when they chase the girl. That when the girl chases it scares them away.
When she puts herself out there like that she get rejected sometimes and seems surprised when she does. I tell her, not everyone is going to have the hots for you. Not everyone you are attracted to is gonna be attracted back.
Am I right with this?
Do guys like it when girls go after them like she does?
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Keep in mind that @Roycaryn is a female posing as a male so take her opinion as such.
That said, most guys love being approached by women. It's flattering just as it is for women. We will reject women we're not interested in just like women do too, but we appreciate and respect women who are willing to put themselves out there like that to show interest in us. It has happened to me on a few occasions and I am always flattered.0