I'm not easy to convince in anything, there is this guy who I really like its been almost a year since I've liked him the problem is he's the player type I guess and im the complete opposite he wants to mess around and I want something serious and I told him straight up that im not the type to mess around with and that im not going to mess around with someone who won't take me serious... I feel like he wants to like cut me off but I also feel like he's hesitating to do so... I don't know... I really like him but if he doesn't take me serious I want nothing to do with him but I don't want to be the one to cut me off I want him to be the one who cuts me off... But I feel like he's hesitating any advice? I need it
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wow... my theory is that once i see "i feel"... the game is up. Its YOUR fault. all i see here is assumption.. let me list it for you :
-"he's the player type"... that can be proved but how do you know? he might just be frivolous
-"i feel like he wants to like cut me off"... ahh you "feel" but you don't know do you?
-"i really like him".. highly doubt that. you are attracted to the personality
-"he doesn't take me serious".. duh.. you aren't dating.. yet
-"I feel like he's hesitating any advice"... WHAT advice? "i like you and you should like me back"?
Darling, he's acting like a guy, you are assuming a lot of things to compensate for the fact that you won't just get up and TRY to get him. From what i see, if you know he is a "player" that should have been a no-go zone. but you are still interested. He's not gonna change because you like him, and You obviously want to make him change. In order to cause something, there has to be an effect, you aren't effecting, you are assuming, hence, he will NOT come your way. The first REAL move is yours... In order to get a "player" you HAVE to be a player.0
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