Would you date a girl who is depressed and has an eating disorder? Would it be annoying to see her upset and not eat and refuse treatment? anything like this? (this is a very weird question but it is for my psychiatric teacher and I'm studying the treatment for eating disorders.)
Would you (guys) ever date a girl who.. is the following?
What Guys Said 7
Yeah, that'd be frustrating because I'd want her to be healthy (mentally and physically) so she can start feeling good again. I would always want to make her happy but I wouldn't be able to handle being the sole thing that's keeping her happy.1
Honestly, no I probably wouldn't. If she has an eating disorder, and refuses to get treatment, that means she's not even wanting to change. And since it's clear she has a problem, I would think she'd want to change.
I cannot care for someone who doesn't care enough to care for themselves.0
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It would be hard. I would hope that by accepting her should would learn to accept herself.2
It's pretty painful because when you love someone you feel their pain, you don't abandon them though. I've dated a girl with depression before but not an eating disorder. I could see past both these things.1
I have before. It's not annoying, it's more scary for us really. If you care about someone, then you want the best for them. And it makes it difficult for us when you refuse treatment. It hurts us, too. It's not annoying.3
I would date someone who was depressed only on the condition that me dating her would make her happy
as for the disorder I don't like stubbornness and it would be annoying1
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