Me and this girl became friends and after about 4 months of getting to know each other we became a couple and we have been together for about 2 months now.
My question is while we were friends there was a guy friend she had for 10 years basically he likes her and she told me he has tried to hit on her a few times and she doesn't look at him like that. I met him him etc she even told me that he told her he wants to marry her etc. But she says she made it clear just friends and he accepted to be in the friend zone.
Yesterday she brought him up saying she hasn't talked to him in a while and wants to catch up with him. Well now that she is my girlfriend that made me feel uncomfortable because I know he wants to be with her. So I asked her so if I hung out with a chick that wants to be with me she will be ok? Her response was she will feel weird but I need to understand she knew this friend for 10 years and he won't do anything to disrespect her when he knows she is with someone. Then asked me do I want her to end that friend ship but in a way like something is wrong with me like that would be a deal breaker and she would break it off with me if I said yes. I just responded that's your friend I'm not going to tell you what to do I just want to understand what is going on with him since I know he wants to be with her...
I'm i wrong here?
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You are absolutely justified in your doubts and worries. She should be able to reject her friend because she has you now, and she does not want him, IN THAT ORDER! For example, every year I go to this week-long camp that has a dance towards the end of it, and you can bring a date and all that. So, every year I have a date, but this year, I had a bf, and I told him about the dance and asked him if it was ok if I had a date. He said no, he wouldn't like it, so I went to the dance alone. I didn't care, I had an awesome time anyway, but I respected his descision because I knew he wasn't overreacting or anything. I even thought about it from his point of view, and if it was him asking to go on a date with someone else, even if it was just a friendship thing and I had no worries, I'd still be like; "Oh HELL NO! You are my bf, and the only person you're going out on a date with is MOI!!!" He was a lot calmer than I would've been...0