We talked online, text and phone for almost 2 weeks and now have decided to meet in person. All the while on the phone, he's telling me how I'm the perfect girl for him, and that he so chooses me and that we are going to many many dates to come. Basically, saying he can see me as his girlfriend. Okay, fine and dandy right? But then I message him and no reply all day, when for the past 2 weeks, he's been writing literally novels all day long to me. Basically, keeping in touch throughout the day which is not something I normally do with anyone, but I did for him because he was so happy to meet me and me too. Here's the problem though, I wondered why he's not replied, I check his dating site and see that's he's been online during that time frame! I feel so lead on. He could have just said thing were casual and I would not feel hurt by the fact that he was still "searching" online. So disappointed. He doesn't know it yet but I'm going to cancel the next 3 dates he had planned for us! Am I doing the right thing?
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I think if he's not answering you, he is the one canceling. Maybe he logged on and something came up and he didn't have time to read the message or answer. If things continue to go this way, I would walk away and find someone new. Have you ever seen the show Catfish? Keep that in mind if you find him backing out of dates and acting strange. Online relationships can be very tricky. Just stay strong and keep your head up. If you feel canceling the dates because he hasn't answered you is the right thing to do, then that is what you should do.0