Okay so earlier I was sitting watching tv and I felt my "area" pulsing. Like a heartbeat. Sometimes that randomly happened so I didn't think much of it. Then i started feeling pressure. I felt butterflies. And everything was blurry. I couldn't talk or move or anything. I ran to my room and started crying because I was pretty sure it was an organsm. I'm only 14 and that makes me feel dirty and disgusting and shameful. Was it an orgasm? And how do I deal with this?
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I'm 95% sure you had an orgasm.
Don't feel bad, please!!! I felt the same way when I had my first orgasm. I was 12 at the time. I also thought it was weird, abnormal and shameful. IT ISN'T! Get that through your head right now, please - it is COMPLETELY NORMAL. The vast majority of girls have had orgasms by your age, many several years younger. A large percentage masturbate and watch P*rnography . If you have urges to do that as well, please don't feel bad about yourself. Again - it's NORMAL! I can guarantee you that the majority of girls you know are going through the same thing. Your hormones are absolutely craaaazy at 14, and your sex drive is likely to shoot through the roof over the next few years. You've probably heard a lot about this happening for boys, but it's totally the same for girls too.0