You're attractive, and I don't think the way you dress is the reason for what's happening. I think it's more about how you project yourself to others, than on how you look. What I mean by "project yourself" I mean your body language. You're worried about this, about not being liked by men, and that thought translates to your body language, to your facial expressions. You may think you look chill, happy and friendly, but maybe you actually look sad, or even angry (even though it's not your intention).
Body language is one of the biggest reasons to approach or not. Most guys won't approach a girl that's with her arms folded, or if she's using headphones.
Start thinking about how you stand, walk, what's your facial expression; be aware of this, and if you realize you're closing up, change, open up, look more friendly, relaxed.
I don't know if this is exactly the reason why men don't approach, it's just a guessing, because it's definitely because of your beauty or the way you dress. You're beautiful, and you dress nice (according to what you said), so it has to be because of your non-verbal behavior.
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It can be intimidating yes. Women usually don't understand this, because they rarely approach themselves, and guys are even more fearful today because practically any approach is seen as sexual assault these days. I remember watching some video this year with a girl walking in New York, and the video was showing how women are constantly sexually harassed. Some of the moves guys were making was questionable, but a lot of it was just guys saying, hi, or you look beautiful. Understand what the situation is today, and act accordingly. If you want male attention in 2014/2015, you need to do way more than flicker your eyelashes at a guy. You've got to be way more obvious.
i'm not turned off by women who dress like that, and you're not even close to being ugly. But I caution you to not let your good looks get to your head. Many girls don't realize when they have a chip on their shoulder because of all the attention they get, and you can often see it in their face, or hear it in their voice... and that's one more reason why you may be passed over.
I did this once:
I smiled a lot
I wore very girly clothes
And I was confident.
I'm not even joking more than 5 guys came up to me that day
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You're fine. Try approaching guys you like also, nothing wrong with a hi how are you to help a shy guy start conversion.
You look far from a scary monster... So no. What it is is that guys think that your taken and probably have many plan for the weekend... And since they don't like to get rejected they think "oh why bother"...
its probably because most men think u r not the type who wants there attention
girls who dont dress in bold colors we end up thinking she doesn't wants us
your looks dont have nothing to do with that, change your clothsfiles.gamebanana.com/.../53411d41c7d83.png
I am intimidated.Try wearing red next time you go out... and tell me if it's different, studies show men correlate the color red with sexual maturity and attraction
And no I'm not intimidated by your "edgy style"Guys probably think you're out of their league, so they don't talk to you out of fear of rejection.
Without knowing what you look like and how you act, it's impossible to answer.
If I found you attractive and you acknowledged me I'd approach you. I'm intimidated by no girl!
Except @misscoffeeheadYou are incredibly beautiful. I mean I would talk to you forever if you let me. Are you just a dominant girl perhaps?
All these questions don't mean anything without a pic seriously.
It could be that you very beautiful And men get intimidated by you good looks and are stand off ish?
Lots of guys are often intimidated by hot goth girls like you ;)
Probably, I find you very attractive o. O
Do you smile at all? Are you friendly?
Where is the HAWT pix?
Probably think you're taken
You r cute and attractive dont worry
attracted =/= intimidation
Sounds intimidating
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