Ok for what it's worth, I would love to be convinced that there is no such thing as being too romantic.
Girls often complain about a lack of romance in their relationships however they continue to be with these men.
Also, I have heard plenty of stories from guys with far more relationship experience than me that being too romantic means a woman won't see a challenge and that some will break it off cos they think they don't deserve that treatment.
So what I want to know is should I occasionally hold off on romance and do things like display a lack of interest, text not call and text late in order to maintain a woman's attraction. Or is there no such thing as too romantic?
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The only real time when being "too romantic" is an issue is when guys do too much too soon. Some guys come off too strong, and it will scare a girl away. Be careful not to seem like you're doing too much right away. Also, don't ignore her or anything and be careful about playing hard to get. However, if you sometimes take 20 or so minutes to reply to a text you keep her interest and it still seems like she's also trying to win you over. Just be careful not to do too much so that she really thinks you're playing games and aren't serious about her because that will turn her away.0
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