we met about 6 years ago, all this time we were more like just pen pals, social friends... never a couple, thought we behaved kinda like on the date, but never anything serious.
So lately i understood, that I DONT LIKE HIM ANYMORE, not even a little and i dont want to be friends any more.
But i can't tell this straight, so i behaved awfully, didn't come to meetings, was silent, strange with him... lol and other weird things, that normally would scare any guy...
but he... he keep text me and ask same questions over and over again, like "hi, what r u doing? i am at home not doing much"
i even dont answer on half of them and usually answer short and kinda sharp...
but still he keep texting me...
i dont even know what to do? any advice?
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Guy is just lonely, and doesn't have many people to talk to by the sounds of it. He's also known you for 6 years now so of course he's going to keep reaching out to you.
Don't ignore him, that's not helping the situation. You need to straight up tell him not to contact you. It's going to hurt him but its better he knows than continuing to give him any hope. You just don't really see him as a friend, would appreciate going your separate ways, and good luck. Don't need to get into specifics with the questions that will follow, just ask him to respect your decision and just would like to move on from this friendship0