Is it true that girls put guys in the "possible boyfriend zone"? Someone said this and I don't believe it.
- Yes there's a boyfriend zoneVote A
- No such thingVote B
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Aka being intersted in someine romantically. It's nOt a zone its a state of being and has varying degreesof longevity depending upon the persons involved possibility if reciprocation and extenuating circumstances.
in my opinion Women and men know whether they are intersted in someone when ir shortly after meeting them. Settling doesn't mean their interest changed over time or that anyone git out if a "zone".
And yeah oeople meet people when they do not want a rekationship but they can still recognize they'd otherwuse be intersted.
This usnt a zone Bc mout prople don't sit around waiting fir someine who likes them but has no intention of getting involved fir the next who knows how long.
It'd be extraordinarily presumptuous to assume just bc you like someone and are not ready to date that when you're ready they'd just be waiting... Which is the only way a gf or bf zone would work. Unless you're the one waiting for them to be ready which again is not practical.
There is interst. Non interst. Not intersted atm. I don't see why anyone needs extra titles fir basic emotional reactions to other orople.
Friend zone was invented to make orople feel like they had some control over whether they git in ir hit out if it instead of resigning themsekves to the fact it's jit happening.
I'm not sure what the bf zone dies for anyone unless its giving hope that one day... Which is basically the same thing as hoping to get out if the friend zone which in my opinion diesnt exist.
I've liked guys when I'm not ready to be in a rekationship but I don't "put" them somewhere bc its nit my place to do so. People decide on their Ian whether they are intersted ir not.
The mist you can do us tell them you're intersted but gave x y z in the way so you won't be ready to date fir - then give them some kind of solid number- and they decide if they want to wait or not.
I think zone misleading bc it undermines definite intentions a person has. It functions on0