I have always been a bit afraid of dating. I am afraid of the pain and getting hurt so i just dont do it. But here the other day on Tuesday i was asked to go meet a guy for coffe.
I said yes but at the same time i was dying inside, i was scared and i was nervous.
I managed to keep it together and i met him and it went well, we talked and laughed and it was all fun and easy.
He drove me to work and we said goodbye.
Than after few hours i get a text where he invistes me to his place for dinner after work.
I was suprised, nervous, afraid but i took my chance.
I went over and it went great, no akwardness, simple, fun and laughter. He even cuddled and kissed me. But he joked about me being a good girl and randomly said im not the boyfriend material guy, and it just shocked me.. because im not a good girl but i respect myself.. he can't just assume i want a boyfriend. He and his ex broke up 2 months ago.. so that was a red flag for me,, but he was so much fun to be with.
He drove me home, and kissed me twice and i thanked him for everything.
Yesterday i sendt him a simple, "hey just wanted to thank you for last night and for the food (master chef) , have a happy new years :)
He replied with saying "Thanks the same :) happy new years"
Than i went all crazy girl mode and analyzed it all. I want to meet him but i dont want to seem needy and ask the day after lets meet again.. and also i got a bit upset because he didn't say anything about meeting either.
I dont want to initiates things and get rejected..
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I would still give it a day or two to see if he contacts you. If not, no harm on sending one "let's do it again" text, if no reply then write it off.
I find it a bit discouraging that he didn't suggest "hey let's do it again" even in passing. In my experience, not even a hint of wanting to meet up usually means they won't. Exceptions to every rule, of course.
Good luck :)0