Why do guys try to get revenge on you when they feel rejected?

Why can't they just be civil and let it go?

For instance take these two guys i rejected:

- they go out of their way to pass by my in college or when I run into them only to glare at me
- they will stand RIGHT BESIDE ME and not say a single word to me like I am a stranger
- they get all mean
- they TRY to make you jealous

WHY do guys do this?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Haha, those are the kind who are trying to make it clear what a "nice" guy you passed over. It isn't revenge! He's doing you a "service" so you will be aware of what an amoral, shallow, and stupid person you are--for not dating him, lol

    Just ignore them ;)

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What Guys Said 8

  • maybe it's not them but YOU.

    I don't think they would feel hatred (because thats what it sounds like), if you didn't lead them on..

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    • maybe that's what it is... i dont intentionally lead guys on but i am really nice and my friends always tell mei give guys the wrong impression :S

  • They're probably confused and upset that you didn't even give them a chance. Not a whole lot you can do about it except ignore them.

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  • It's hard for them to accept defeat...

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  • Because fuck that.

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  • Because they got rejected and their trying to make you pay for it somehow so that they feel better.

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  • They're salty, and want to take it out on you.

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  • They just wanted to forget you and keep moving in the present. They did something like this because they want to ease their sadness.

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    • You'd think if they want to forget me they would stop trying to be around me lol

    • Because you are still in the college. After you left, they might forget it. Yeah, I had met some anti resistant guys who cannot accept it. They used the chances to annoy you because they think they are man who won't and should'n been disobeyed.

  • I wouldn't call this revenge. Infact I would just say you are over thinking it and they are just moving on.

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    • Trust me going out of your way to come stand beside and me and when it's not needed is not be over reacting and neither is the glaring

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