I'm 22, about to graduate with my Bachelor's, and haven't been anywhere close to a serious, marriage-prospect relationship. People say I'm about a 7/8 and I'm very smart to boot. But, I'm shy and frankly, an old soul that doesn't like conversing with a lot of people my age that I feel I can't relate to. I don't party or hook up, so parties and apps like Tinder serve no purpose. Everyone I know has someone or is getting married. I'm going on two and a half years single. Guys never approach me, EVER. The only time I've ever been approached at college was when I was leaving a theatre makeup class in baggy clothes, my hair in a sloppy bun on top of my head, no makeup, covered in plaster. I'm so used to being invisible, I blew him off out of shock. Lol. Sometimes I feel everyone is lying to me and there's something horrific keeping them away. I just don't understand why I don't get approached and seen as girlfriend material, but the crazy and demanding bitches have to beat the guys off them with a stick. It's disheartening. I've waited a long time. I guess I should just wait some more. I'm also a virgin, which makes me feel even weirder with every passing year of no one to be intimate with, as my sex drive increases with age. I just feel stuck! I refuse to settle for less like I have in the past, but it's a lonely path.
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You sound cool, in fact, just the kind of person I'll be looking for in college, you can take that as a compliment because you don't know me :D
You could try going out more, join a club or org that does stuff you like, there should be plenty of options even if you don't like partying.0