Just looking for some meaty/simple answers.
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There's just something so appealing about a guy who's sure of himself. Not cocky and arrogant, but knows who he is and carries himself in such a way that it shows. That being said, I personally don't have anything against shy guys. I also think that being confident and shy aren't always on 2 different ends of the spectrum.
A lot of people associate being confident with being loud, outspoken, the life of the party and such. But that's not always the case. You can confident without being obnoxious about it. I find a guy that's kind of quiet and reserved to be sexy as well and sometimes those guys come off as shy, but again, not always the case.0