This girl has never had a boyfriend. She is not overweight or obese, but average. She is not a conventional beauty. She is 23 years old and still hasn't gone on any dates or kissed anyone.
How can she tell that it's her looks that's the problem and not her personality?
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Tbh, I've seen all sorts of girls having guys like them. I know it's a cliché, but somebody does like you and others have liked you and more will like you.
You just have to look out for it more. From giving a second glance or small smile to a guy checking you out at the bus stop, to the shy scared to approach you guy who you work with.
I never ever noticed guys looked at me, till friends pointed certain things out or just said stuff like "hmm black guys always like you don't they, they always check you out" and stuff like that.
I'm not looking at guys, they are, so they notice who's looking our direction. If you actually make an effort to look at them and stuff, I guarantee you'll see guys checking you out.
Guys (no offence) like women full stop, every woman has something some guy will like. They're kinda pervy, so it's not difficult at all when you make an effort.
If it's your personality, you'll know because you'll get the guys taking you out or texting you, then they'll not want to get to know you much more when they see your personality.1