He's 35 and shy, how do I move forward with him without dragging him?

I was introduced by a friend to his friend who is extremely shy. We had coffee and he was noticeably nervous. The next day we went to lunch and talked for 2 hours. Our mutual friend was surprised by how much he revealed to me over our two outings. This week we text each other twice. Both times were initiated by me. Should I stop nudging him?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • If you like him, no. Not this early on. Perhaps after a month of doing this, yes. He may be 35 but he is still shy and just needs some help. Eventually you should say "LOOK I LIKE YOU... TAKE SOME INITIATIVE!" and see what happens. Say it in all caps too... that will really get the point across! ;-)

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What Guys Said 1

  • how much experience does he have with women?

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    • He was married for 6 years but I don't know of his experience prior to that.

What Girls Said 1

  • Gag him and drag him!

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