so i was talking to this guy on plenty of fish. he was the one to message me first. i thought we were really getting along and he was flirting and giving all these compliments. then one day i didn't hear from him for a week. then he messages me again but doesn't respond after i respond. this happens a couple times and then i finally send him a message a couple weeks later and he asks how i am doing but then doesn't respond again. i'm the type of person to believe that if you were really interested, you'd go for it, which leads me to believe he's not. i'm not desperate but i'm still curious, it's one thing to say you're busy and maybe don't respond for hours... but weeks? i want to take the "hint" but then why respond at all if you're no longer interested?
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Unless for some reason strange reason he's playing hard to get and knows he's attracted your attention and is just trying to draw you in (Unlikely), he's not interested. I am also I little bit confused, because I would never think to flirt with a girl that I'm not interested in, but that being said I have had plenty of girls mistake me for flirting with them, when I was just being nice.
I give girls compliments all the time, but I don't do it because I'm trying to flirt with them all. Quite the opposite actually, and I'm actually just trying to be nice and make friends with them. Maybe he's not interested, and was just being friendly and then backed off once he realized what you were thinking. That's all I can think of.
I would try to forget him though. If he is still interested in you, trust me he will message you when he's ready to talk...1