I decided to take a chance and go on date on Tuesday. The coffe date went well, and i didn't expect a date nr 2.
He texted me the same day and asked me for dinner the same day. I went to his place and we had dinner and it was so much fun and he cuddled and kissed me.. so i was like okay he probably got a good impression?
But he said i was such a good girl bc i havnt had done drugs and i dont party every weekend etc.
He suddently said.. im not the boyfriend material guy by the way, i want to be honest with you.
It suprised me because i didn't say i wanted a boyfriend and i got hurt.
He drove me home and kissed me goodbye, didn't mention another date.
Next day i texted him and i said thanks for the date and dinner and wished him a happy new years, and he replied saying thanks the same :) happy new years, and no date questions.. i did get disappointed
But at the same time im like ok do i want a guy who doesn't want to be serious? NO
but somehow im still upset because i havnt heard from him in 4 days.. i dont know why im feeling this way :( am i being needy?
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It sounds like he wasn't as much of a fan of the date as you may have thought.
Either he was being a "player," and having multiple girls at one time or he figured out he simply wasn't into you. Either way, if he wanted to see you again he probably would have texted you.
By saying he's not "Boyfriend material" sounds an awful lot like a guy who's trying to think of an excuse for not going on another date with you.
I would try to forget about him, and if he wants to see you again, he'll let you know.0
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