how can a shy guy like my self talk to a younger women i am 38 single i really like to meet a nice girl get married and have a bunch of kids some day. how ever women my age are not looking to start a new family i see a lot of guys that have really young girlfriends the guy are not that good looking or dont have a lot of money i have never been good at talking to women as i am not all that smart and very shy i would rather have the girl start the conversation go from her lead
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It's not impossible. I have two close friends who are aged 36-37 years old and have a girlfriend aged 24. And they both have a child with their girlfriend.
They are of average looks and wealth. But they didn't get their girl by just sitting around and hoping girls should start a conversation with them. If you are shy and are hoping that girls just randomly will start conversations with you and get the ball rolling, I'm sorry to say that you pretty much have to forget that. With 99.99% certainty that will not happen, but miracles happen, right?
The steps to take is to get in reasonable good physical condition. And you need to work on the shyness. It's a skill you can work on just like everything else.0